The very first thing to do is, of course, to prepare properly. It should be immediately agreed that as soon as one of the partners asks, the other will immediately stop. It should be understood at a basic level that the main criterion for first sex is voluntary. First of all, it is necessary to prepare a place and a sufficient amount of time. A girl should feel free, not rush anywhere, not worry that her mom dad brother will come in at any moment. It is necessary to have quick access to a shower and a clean set of bed linen.During defloration (first intercourse), a girl's hymen ruptures, which brings with it pain, the strength of which depends on the individual pain threshold. Not to remove them, but to reduce them, a well-chosen pose, prolonged foreplay, and, most importantly, unconditional trust in your partner will help. Strong arousal dulls the feeling of pain and the act of defloration will pass with minimal consequences. Also, if the hymen ruptures, blood may flow. But don't worry, it will stop moving quickly. And that's exactly why you may need a spare set of clean underwear (blood can also be removed with cold water and hydrogen peroxide). And it is recommended to start having full-fledged sex after 3-4 days.Safety At the very beginning, both should visit a venereologist, and the girl should also visit a gynecologist. You can learn everything about your health and the medical side of the issue from him. It is best to learn about this from the doctor, and not from numerous girlfriends, mom or partner. You should also visit a gynecologist after defloration. The guy needs to take care of the safety. No "I'll make it." No douching. No folk methods. Only proven products — condoms and pills. But for a girl, pills can have a devastating effect on the body, and a condom won't be bad for anyone. Not only does it protect against possible pregnancy and infections as much as possible, it also protects the vaginal microflora. As funny as it may sound, it's better for guys if they practice putting on a condom beforehand. Sometimes it looks very awkward.The main mistakes.- Lack of volunteerism.- Drunk first sex.- An act with an unknown partner is a bad condition.- Lack of basic knowledge about the female and male body - Lack of "protection".- The lack of trust in the partner makes it clear that during the act of defloration, the initiative should be given to the guy. If the very fact of having a hymen interferes, but it seems unpleasant to lose it naturally, then gynecologists provide such a function as medical defloration. It is simply surgically eliminated. A bad first experience can be a big problem for both girls and boys. It can cause fear of sex, inability to have an orgasm, feminism or sexism. To prevent this from happening, the act of defloration must be a conscious decision. It must be a strong mutual desire. And most importantly, as mentioned several times above, the first sexual experience is a symbol of the partners' boundless trust in each other. 1xBet is the world’s largest betting company, operating since 2007. The site is available in multiple languages and is fully accessible from Bangladesh without any restrictions. However, we recommend downloading the mobile app for a smoother experience and more convenient betting on your phone. Use our exclusive 1xbet promo code for registration at 1xBet to activate the $130 welcome bonus. You can enjoy a 100% bonus. In order to register for this website, the user is required to accept the Terms of Service.